Ball-Basin-Team Combine !
Maketh The Smile Divine !!
Maketh The Smile Divine !!
The other day while doing some
'KU-TA work' I found a 'smiling ball' stuffed inside a 'museum', a drawer so
termed where useless items in my house are kept for some
future use. ('KU-TA work': An abbreviation in local language for 'doing something when there is
nothing to do in particular').
Feeling sorry that the other items were poking such a 'smiling fellow' from all the sides, I relocated it near wash basin.
By the way, can a material-piece smile? Just keep staring at that ball in picture to find your own answer.
Yes. 'I' found it 'smiling' in spite of the other items with sharp corners poking it.
Yes. 'I' found it 'smiling' in spite of the other items with sharp corners poking it.
Due to it's resilience, it popped out at first opportunity when the drawer was
opened.
Now as many times I go near the basin,
the 'smiley ball' acts as a mirror reminding me to give a wide (mouthed) smile
before looking into the mirror above it. Instruction to smile comes
neurologically. That means while I splash water on my face the smiley ‘splashes smile’ on my mind.
Natural consequence is, my next
moment is done (rather made happy) if not the whole day.
One day I set out to take a
Volvo bus to Pune. No taxi in sight.
The 'smiley' reminded me to
'dwell' for a moment and exercise choice to pick up a happy moment from the
frowning situation.
Frowning moment Happy moment
(Dependent on Taxi) (Independent of Taxi. Bus # 11 in action! Haha.. Old P.J.)
I 'smiled' and began walking
down 'thinking' of making up for a couple of missed 'evening walks'.
It turned out to be a 'smiley morning walk'.
It turned out to be a 'smiley morning walk'.
On the way, said 'Hi' to my
milkman. Saw a couple of morning business models of newspaper vendors.
Heard/saw parent-birds chirping 'bye' to their babies just as I saw some
mothers doing the same to their children while 'safely depositing' them in
school bus.
I reached Thane bus stand to
catch 0700 hrs bus. 'Starter' of the bus there got defective.
They
promised to put passengers in next bus that arrived at 0730ish.
But that was
canceled because the driver had "somehow brought it" from wherever
(the workshop or the last lap of bus returning from Pune-Mumbai journey)
"with defective brakes", I overheard.
Finally I could board on 0830
bus.
What is the cost to the
concerned stakeholders? I have covered this in a separate article.
What did the 'smiley ball' in my
head do?
It re'mind'ed me to film the
'whole show' that went on there between 0700 to 0830.
It was full of chaos of stranded
passengers mixed with incoming ones for the next bus, with lack of official
announcement, 'courteous' behaviour of the conductor and passengers 'sitting on
conductor's head' while running around helter-skelter with luggage on seeing
every sky-blue colour bus entering the depot thinking it was for them. I clicked.. video/audio taped.. made notes.. the fun went on and on with 'hangover' inside the bus post-0830 boarding.
The
'smiley' gifted me with an article and a short-multimedia-film in return to it's relocation that turned out to be a 'promotion' for it. Promotion because, there the ‘smiley’ could meet a 'variety of people' round the clock with a 'variety of moods' they exhibit in the form of innovative cow's mooing kind and goat's bleat kind noises they create there. The 'smiley' hopes to influence their (as well as mine) mood for the good.
Sounds over-stretched day-dream? Sounds philosophical? Sounds spiritual?
To get over a 'frown(y)-mood' is not as simple as it sounds, at least not in case of an adversity.
To get over a 'frown(y)-mood' is not as simple as it sounds, at least not in case of an adversity.
But isn't it more about a 'positive-self-talk' - isn't it the spirituality in reality?
Isn't it about asking the self 'what and who is in (my) control'?
Isn't it easier to control Me-myself to bring out an assertive 'action' rather than an aggressive 'reaction'?
Then
why not exercise self-control (on emotional response) rather than blaming the
'external situation'. It is anyway out of 'my' control at the moment.
Many will agree with me that 'spur of the moment' emotional response/s do make one suffer. Of course, looking back many will also agree that the 'suffering' do turn out to be 'relative'. The 'theory of relativity' fame Einstein, one of the greatest scientists, was both philosophical as well as highly spiritual.
Being human (and yet to attain equanimity) emotions are inevitable. But there are other ways to dissipate them. One I know is the way Japanese express their anger on boss. They hit (not their boss but) a punching bag hung at their workplace. I
keep a 'moving punching bag' with me. I hit my left palm with the right one (a
soft blow of course to avoid frowning palm/s later). Then 'self-energize in a minute'. At home, I stretch muscles, punch in air, then 'self-energize'.
Near every other 'imaginary' wash basin wherever/whenever I go for a break, now an imaginary 'smiley ball' there reminds me to consciously look for
opportunities to 'be happy' in each 'frowning' moment or 'adversity'.
What has changed? Nothing but my mind, my perspective, my paradigm did!
And what a bonus? The
so-called useless item lying there for a couple of years, the 'smiley ball', is 'found' so useful. Nothing and no-one in this world is
useless actually.
Or how about saying, nothing in
this world is worthy until someone (else) 'finds' it worthy.
P.S.: Just lost a couple of paragraphs because inadvertently I clicked 'close' instead of 'save'. A momentary frown but suddenly realized (m)I(nd) can re-write. I did. A couple of good paras appeared.. Happy? Yes!
Bored. Frowning at me? 'Smiley' is re'mind'ing you to log-off and switch tracks to another activity).
Also read a few relevant blogposts hereunder: Please do consider leaving a comment or sharing this post.
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Success-or-failure! What-do-you-like?
Ball-Basin-Team Combine ! Maketh The Smile Divine !!
Different 'hatke' perspective of looking at things... refreshing read...!! Keep smiling :)
ReplyDeleteSuch smileys placed at in strategic locations in colleges or any workplace would really do wonders and refresh everybody's mind...It would make everyone realize the importance of a smile... :)
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